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Soft Shoulder Advice
Blog #97     By Michelle Drew     June 22 2006

A Few Words From Michelle

A quick follow up on the great fluffernutter debate in the Massachusetts legislature. After having notified the MA Democratic Party, the legislators involved and 2 newspapers, I continue to look for a watch dog agency to help stop the waste. Are your legislators wasting your tax dollars? You don't have to wait for election time to register your outrage. They may not listen, but do speak up for right. It IS your right to speak up. Isn't that what makes our democracy great??

All Good Thoughts
Today's quotes come to us from the Dalai Lama...

So I often share with my friends: the very concept of war is outdated. Because in the past the different communities have independent interests - separate interests there. So more or less independent. So in that circumstances, destroy of your enemy is victory of yourself. So in ancient times that –way of approach, is also in some extent, although morally speaking very wrong, but practical level, seems some logic. But nowadays, no longer that reality. Destruction of your neighbor as enemy is essentially destruction of yourself.

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Each individual also have I think immense sort of power. Not immediate, but long run, I think each of you have, I think, important role for promotion of nonviolence and promotion of spirit of dialogue with spirit of reconciliation. If you respect others' rights and realize other also part of yourself, then spirit of compromise very easily can develop. Because their interest is my interest. Therefore I must respect, I must protect their interest.

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Peace [is] not just absence of violence, but peace is something full. Peace means, I think, any action [made] out of compassion, out of sense of concern, out of respect [for] others' rights; that is peace. So in the promotion of peace we have to create a foundation of peace: that is human compassion.


Inspirational Reading
Another beauty from Steve Goodier...

MOTIVATING OTHERS

There was once a small boy who banged a drum all day and loved every
moment of it. He would not be quiet, no matter what anyone else said
or did. Various attempts were made to do something about the child.

One person told the boy that he would, if he continued to make so much
noise, perforate his eardrums. This reasoning was too advanced for the
child, who was neither a scientist nor a scholar.

A second person told him that drum beating was a sacred activity and
should be carried out only on special occasions. The third person
offered the neighbors plugs for their ears; a fourth gave the boy a
book; a fifth gave the neighbors books that described a method of
controlling anger through biofeedback; a sixth person gave the boy
meditation exercises to make him placid and docile. None of these
attempts worked.

Eventually, a wise person came along with an effective motivation. He
looked at the situation, handed the child a hammer and chisel, and
asked, "I wonder what is INSIDE the drum?"

No more problem.

Good leaders know how to motivate others. They pique their curiosity
and tickle their sense of wonder. They teach them to dream and tempt
them to do more than they ever thought possible. They challenge them
to be a part of something great.

Pilot and author Antoine de Saint-Exupery said, "If you want to build
a ship, don't drum up the men to gather wood, divide the work, and
give orders. Instead, teach them to yearn for the vast and endless
sea."

Do that and there will be no limit to the wondrous places they can
travel.

Visit Steve's website at www.lifesupportsystems.com



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