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Soft Shoulder Advice
Blog #90     By Michelle Drew     June 7 2006

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Reader Comment (by way of Gene Barber, Peaceful Mariner Extraordinaire)

Mornin' Gene.

 Just have to say I was very saddened to find "Rodeo"
pictures in your newsletter.  I did appreciate Michelle's (the woman
who took the pictures) views on war and peace and women.  I did not
expect to find such pictures matched with anti-war sentiments.

Rodeo, as it stands today, is war against animals.  For one thing,
the calf-roping.  Let us ask ourselves:  "How would I like to be of
toddler age and be aggressively pursued, roped around my neck,
slammed down on the ground, and have my legs and arms tied together."

It would horrify us to do this to a human and yet we do it to
animals, the innocent, voiceless ones.  For years the animal rights
organizations have been trying to transform Rodeo, to have
calf-roping and other inhumane events removed.  There would still be
a way to showcase these great creatures without having them suffer,
<>and the tradition of the west would still be honored. 

Would not peace, kindness, aloha, compassion, whatever you want to call it,
fulfill its highest purpose were it offered to all the Creation?
For me, animals have been best friends, healers, and, dare I say,
teachers.  To see them treated with such epic disrespect is a great
heartbreak and in my opinion an insult to God.  It must stop.

Respectfully,

[Name Withheld]

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Dear NW;

Thanks for writing in and expressing your opinion. I am in agreement about rodeo animals
being exploited. Isn't that true of all animals? Why do humans think that it is alright to
ride horses, have oxen pull their plows, race Greyhounds and Akitas? And what about
wild animals taught to perform at circuses, or on display in zoos?

The easy answer, for some is that we are on top of the food chain, so we can. Animals
work for us, feed us, comfort us and protect us. Some would say that their roles as stated
above, are what they were put on earth for. Others, like you and myself cringe.

HOWEVER, this is exploitation, not war. War is a product of hate, of power and control
meant to hurt and/or destroy an identified enemy. This, in my opinion, is a cultural difference.
Circus, rodeo and dog racing people consider themselves animal lovers. People who hunt
and fish are appreciative of the animals that provide nourishment and sustain life.

The purpose of this blog is multicultural understanding. The goal is the understanding,
tolerance and acceptance of the differences and similarities amoung us. Rodeo's are
part of the culture out here in Wyoming. To attend a rodeo is to learn about what others
find entertaining.

Did I enjoy the rodeo? Because no animals or people were hurt that day,  it did make
it possible for me to appreciate it. Would it be on a list of activities that I do again?
Maybe, but probably not. I don't attend circuses with animals, ride horses or make
animals pull loads for me. I don't attend dog or horse races either.

I do attend ballet regularly, inspite of the fact that ballerinas are so starved that
most of them don't menstruate. And also in spite of the fact that the male ballet
dancers have costumes that completely cover their crotches while the females
nearly always have costumes that contain less than 6 inches of leotard between
the audience and their most intimate privacies.

It is wonderful when people recognize and stand up for exploitation of any kind.
But it is also important that we respect each others' cultures. Writing in as you
did is a positive way to expose exploitation. Insinuating that rodeo riders are
war mongers is not only untrue and inflammatory, but it takes the focus off the
actual issue of the cruelty of calf roping.

Let us not fall into the trap of thinking that we need to destroy that which is
different than our own culture. THAT, my friend, is war.

Michelle

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Inspirational  Reading

A MIRACLE MORNING

In her poem "Aurora Leigh," Elizabeth Bar­rett Browning wrote:

Earth's crammed with heaven, And every common bush afire with God; But only he who sees, takes off his shoes, The rest sit round it and pluck blackberries.

I have certainly plucked my share of black­berries, blind to what wonder there is in life. But on occasion I have also had my eyes opened by others, a bit more sensitive and aware. I cherish those mo­ments and recall them when life gets too routine and ordinary. I'll never forget one such moment.

I stumbled out the door of a mountain cabin where I was spending the weekend working with youth and their families at a rustic retreat center. I had a 6:30 a.m. appointment to keep and squinted from the early autumn sun peeking over pine-blan­keted mountaintops.

"Today is a miracle!" spoke a young, enthu­siastic voice behind me. I turned toward the radiant face of my teen-aged friend.

"How?" I asked her. I wasn't sure if I could handle any excitement this early in the morning.

"Think about it," she smiled. "The sun rose, didn't it?"

"Yeah." I found it easy to hide any enthusi­asm. It seemed to rise on every other morning with­out any help from me.

"That's a miracle! It is miraculous that the earth turns as it does. At night, the sun goes down and in the morning it rises. It just happens!"

I pretty much had this figured out years ago, I thought, as I rubbed sleep from my eyes. I was also busy thinking about how to get a cup of coffee.

"And look at the mountains! Covered with trees and grass, they look so beautiful. And there," she pointed, "a valley. It's all a miracle!"

"What have I stumbled into?" I thought. "And where is the coffee?"

"Wildflowers blooming," she continued. "It all smells so fresh and clean and so good." She took a deep breath. Her blue eyes sparkled. "All of na­ture receives water and light. Things grow and blos­som -- it is all so beautiful."

Maybe it wasn't coffee I needed...but whatever she had gotten into! I didn't know if it was her bubbly personal­ity or the freshness of the morning, but I began to sense her enchantment with the daybreak. A little, anyway. Somehow, she had me believing that the day did hold a certain magic.

Then, with a smile that seemed to make her blonde curls laugh, she gave her pronouncement a note of finality. "And best of all, it will happen again tomorrow. And the next day! And the next!" She sighed. "It's a miracle morning!"

My young friend showed wisdom beyond her years. For her, earth was "crammed with heaven" and "every bush afire." She should never want for happiness, for she had already learned, at such an early age, to find wonder in the common­place and to feel gratitude for the ordinary. If each day for her is a miracle, then a lifetime will be no less than a mar­velous extravaganza!

Steve Goodier
www.lifesupportsystem.com


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