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Soft Shoulder Advice
Blog #86 By Michelle
Drew May 31 2006
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Advice Question
Dear Michelle;
There is a kid that says he asked me out twice and I rejected
him both times. But this kid has OCD and I think he said it but in his
own words and I didn't understand it...so I guess I accidently said no.
I really like this kid, and he is dating one of my best friends, but I
have always done things with him before that and my friend knew that I
liked him...He liked me too, But he got drunk one night and he gets
really horny when he drinks..So she put moves on him and had sex him...
Should I keep my friendship with my friend? I liked this kid for 4
years and we have done stuff in those past 4 years, not sexually, but
like softer stuff like holding hands, laying together, kissing...and
other things...If I do keep my friendship, should I tell her I know
that she betrayed me? And what do I do about the guy I like?, Trust me,
its not hormones or I would have had sex already...
Jade
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Dear
Jade;
This
guy is dating your friend. He's had plently of time to ask you out. He
and your friend hit it off. If you really are her friend, you will
understand what happened. It does take some maturity to understand
this, but it is a valuable example of how to handle things and how to
move on. If you come out fighting with this gal, you will end up
alienating both of them. Find a new guy. One that wants to be your
boyfriend instead of one that does stuff sometimes when he feels like
it or is drunk.
It
really is a question of self-esteem. YOUR self-esteem. Get involved
with sports or hobbies that help you develop you skills and team work.
When you feel good about yourself, and good about what you are doing,
things will progress romantically as well. Give it some time.
Michelle
All
Good Thoughts
If
one advances confidently in the direction of his dreams and endeavors
to lead the life which he has imagined, he will meet with a success
unexpected in common hours.
Henry David Thoreau
Challenges
make you discover things about yourself that you never really knew.
They're what make the instrument stretch—what makes you go beyond the
norm.
Cicely Tyson
Ah, but a man's
reach should exceed his grasp – or what's a heaven for?
Robert
Browning
Inspirational
Reading
ATTRACTING
PEOPLE TO YOU
In West Virginia
folklore there is a story of a country doctor
who was called
out to a holler late one night to assist a woman
about to give
birth. By the time the doctor arrived at the
farmhouse,
things had progressed to a point where the doctor
asked the
husband to help him by holding a gas lantern up
high in order to
illuminate the makeshift delivery room.
Before long, the
courageous mother delivered a healthy baby boy.
As the father
lowered the lantern, the doctor barked an order to
keep the lantern
aloft: "We're not done yet." Shortly, a second
child appeared
on the scene, a healthy baby girl. Shaken by the
unexpected
arrival of twins, the father heard the doctor say once
again, "We can't
stop now. It looks as if it's going to be
triplets." To
which the stunned father, still holding the lantern
high, replied,
"Do you think it's the light that's attracting
them?"
Light has a
quality of attraction. I recently left my office door
open late one
afternoon in our mountain home and, at dusk, the
light from
within attracted -- a hummingbird! (Coaxing a
hummingbird out
of the house is a little like pushing a rope.
Mostly, whatever
you do doesn't work.)
You, too, have a
light that attracts...an inner light. Not
visible to the
naked eye, but apparent just the same. We speak of
a "twinkle" in
the eye or a "flicker" of warmth in the heart.
Some people
shine with a light of kindness. Others emit a light
of hope. There
are those who glow with enthusiasm and still
others who
radiate love.
Almost all
creatures are drawn to light, including humans. Do you
want to attract
people to you? Positive and life-affirming inner
qualities can
attract people like a warm fire on a cold night.
What will draw
other people to you best cannot be purchased in
any department
store. They will respond to that which radiates
from within.
You may not
always see it, but your light is shining through. And
it's one of your
most attractive qualities!
Steve Goodier
www.lifesupportsystem.com
