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Soft Shoulder Advice
Blog #71     By Michelle Drew     April 25 2006

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All Good Thoughts

Champions aren't made in gyms.
Champions are made from something they have deep inside them-a
desire, a dream, a vision. They have to have the skill, and
the will. But the will must be stronger than the skill.
Muhammad Ali

Don't forget until too late that the business of life is
not business, but living.
Bertie Charles Forbes

Man is the only creature that refuses to be what he is.
Albert Camus

Inspirational Reading

A GLORIOUS TRIP

An ordinance in Dallas, Texas, forbids "walking about aimlessly, with
no apparent purpose, lingering, hanging around, lagging behind, idly
spending time, delaying, sauntering and moving slowly about."
(PRESUMED IGNORANT, by Leland H. Gregory III).

Some of my best days were spent like that!

But then, I wonder how many of us live life with "no apparent
purpose...lagging behind...idly spending time...delaying" and
generally "walking about aimlessly"? In other words, does your life
lack a clear direction, focus and purpose?

It is a mistake to think that moving fast is the same as actually
going somewhere. And it is also an error to believe that doing many
things is as good as doing the right thing. People who are the most
satisfied with their lives actually go somewhere because they spend
more time doing the right things.

News commentator Dan Rather had a vital question he asked himself
several times a day. Largely because of this one question, he became
one of America's leading journalists. Rather wrote the question on
three slips of paper. He kept one in his billfold, one in his pocket,
and one on his desk. The all-important question he constantly asked
himself was this: "Is what you are doing now helping the broadcast?"

If the answer was yes, then he continued with his work, project or
idea. If the answer was no, then he stopped what he was doing and put
his efforts into something else. He discovered years ago that if he
did not focus his time, he would end up in a job that under-utilized
his potential.

What if you were to ask yourself such a question several times a day?

You might ask, "Is what I'm doing now helping me succeed?" Or, "Is
what I'm doing now helping me reach an important goal?" Or, "Is what
I'm doing now helping me grow?"

Write the question you choose on small slips of paper or on the back
of a business card. Carry it with you. Post it on your desk. You might
even affix it to a conspicuous spot inside your car.

Read it several times a day. That one question will focus you.  Before
you know it, you'll find yourself actually headed in the direction you
want to go. And even if you never fully arrive, it will be a glorious
trip!
Steve Goodier
www.lifesupportsystem.com



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